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Merrie Spaeth:
the words to avoid

Director of media relations in Reagan’s White House, later the adviser to Swift Boat Veterans for Truth and the coach who prepared Ken Starr for his impeachment testimony. In February 2008, four months before Epstein pleaded guilty, she drafted three versions of a public apology for him and prepared him for interviews — marking “respectful of legal process” as a good phrase and “pervert,” “under age” and “pornography” as words to avoid. None of the apologies was ever issued. She has said she ended the engagement out of discomfort; released records show contact continuing in 2011 and an apparent message in 2015. She has never been accused of any offence.

The engagement
Feb 2008
Apology drafts
Three · none used
Said it ended
Out of discomfort
Records show contact
2011 · 2015
Ever accused
Never
Read this first

Merrie Spaeth has never been accused of any offence, and preparing a client for interviews is lawful professional work. She has said she ended the engagement because she was uncomfortable with it, and when reached by reporters in 2025 she declined an interview and provided a written statement. What this page documents is the work itself — which survives in unusual detail — and a contradiction between her account of when it stopped and what the records show.

The Finding
In February 2008 she gave him a list of words to avoid. One of them was “under age.”
Preparing Epstein for interviews four months before he pleaded guilty, she marked “respectful of legal process” as a good phrase, and “pervert,” “under age” and “pornography” as bad ones. This archive documents the reframing of allegations across forty pages. Here is the same operation performed at the level of individual words, written down, by a former White House director of media relations.

Most of what this archive knows about reputation work is inferred from its effects. The Spaeth material is different: it is the instruction manual.

Elsewhere we can see that search results changed, that stories were placed, that accusers were undermined — and reconstruct the method backwards from the outcome. Here the method is stated in advance, in a memo, in her own vocabulary.

“The Spaeth methodology,” as her own memo calls it, was teaching him to answer without “being trapped by the parameters”to have “material to change the subject,” and the “skill to repeat ‘it’s not appropriate to discuss…’ without sounding canned or bored.”

Read the word list closely and the logic is unmistakable. The approved phrase is procedural — it makes the speaker a participant in a legal process. The forbidden words are the three that make the conduct concrete: what he is, how old they were, and what was photographed.

“Under age” is the one that matters most, because it is the only phrase on the list that refers to the children. Removing it from the vocabulary removes them from the sentence.

She also drafted three apologies, and none was ever issued. The first began: “As a child growing up, I was taught to apologize.” Over the following decade he never made any public apology of the kind those drafts envisioned. The road was mapped and not taken.

And there is a discrepancy in her account that the 2026 release exposed.

She has said she terminated the engagement out of discomfort. Records show a note through his assistant in July 2011“You know you can always call on us” — and a message in January 2015, during renewed negative coverage: “We’re here if you want help. We think the world of you.” The 2015 sender and recipient are redacted; the message appears to be from her.

The Vocabulary List

Prepared for Epstein, February 2008.

Good: “respectful of legal process.”

Bad: “pervert.” “under age.” “pornography.”

Four months later he pleaded guilty to felony solicitation of prostitution and procurement of minors to engage in prostitution.

He never issued any of the three apologies.

Section 01

Four Words

The list as it was given, and what each word does. Three of the four are the ones that make the conduct legible.

“Respectful of legal process”
Use this

What he should say. Procedural, cooperative, and about the system rather than about a person. It positions the speaker as a participant in due process rather than as its subject.

“Pervert”
Avoid

A word about character. Once used, it is the frame — and it cannot be argued with procedurally.

“Under age”
Avoid

The only one of the three that describes the actual conduct. Removing it from the vocabulary removes the children from the sentence.

“Pornography”
Avoid

A word that makes the material concrete. Abstraction is the goal throughout: the further language moves from what was photographed and who was in the room, the more survivable the question becomes.

Section 02

The Record

1964
Before all of it

Featured as a teenager in the film The World of Henry Orient. Later a White House Fellow, then director of public affairs at the Federal Trade Commission.

1983–85
The Reagan White House

Director of media relations under Ronald Reagan. She then founded Spaeth Communications in Dallas.

1998
Coaching Ken Starr

She coaches the independent counsel on his congressional testimony during the Clinton impeachment. Starr would later join Epstein’s defence team and help negotiate the 2007 non-prosecution agreement.

2004
Swift Boat

She advises Swift Boat Veterans for Truth, which attacked John Kerry’s Vietnam record during the presidential campaign. She was later quoted saying she regretted the involvement.

Feb 2008
Three apologies

She sends Epstein three draft versions of a public apology, varying in length and tone. The first opens: “As a child growing up, I was taught to apologize.”

Feb 2008
Good words and bad words

She prepares him for interviews with a vocabulary list. “Good”: “respectful of legal process.” “Bad”: “pervert,” “under age,” “pornography.” The frame being built at the level of individual words, in a document.

Feb 2008
“The Spaeth methodology”

Her memo after the session describes teaching him to answer without “being trapped by the parameters” — emphasising “material to change the subject” and the “skill to repeat ‘it’s not appropriate to discuss…’ without sounding canned or bored.”

Jun 2008
He pleads guilty

Four months after the drafts, Epstein pleads guilty to felony solicitation of prostitution and procurement of minors for prostitution. He never makes any public apology of the sort the three drafts envisioned.

Her account
“Uncomfortable”

She later told Bloomberg she terminated the engagement because she was uncomfortable with it. Reached in 2025, she declined an interview and provided a written statement.

Jul 2011
But the contact continued

Records released in 2026 show a note sent through Epstein’s assistant: “I just wanted to touch base and make sure you were feeling more secure. After our last phone call, some weeks ago, I was concerned. You know you can always call on us. Calendar reminders instruct Epstein to call her that month.

Jan 2015
“We think the world of you”

During a period of renewed negative publicity, a message appearing to come from her reads: “We’re here if you want help. We think the world of you.” Seven years after the guilty plea, to a registered sex offender. Sender and recipient are redacted in the released record.

2023–26
After

Spaeth Communications is acquired by Sunwest Communications in 2023; she continues in communication training. She has never been accused of any offence.

Section 03

The Specialism

Her client history has a shape, and naming it is not the same as alleging anything.

She coached Ken Starr for his congressional testimony during the Clinton impeachment. She advised Swift Boat Veterans for Truth, which attacked a presidential candidate’s military record — involvement she later said she regretted. She coached Starr again when, as president of Baylor University, he faced scrutiny over the institution’s handling of sexual assault allegations. And in 2008 she prepared Epstein.

The Starr thread is the one worth pausing on. He was on the defence team that negotiated the 2007 non-prosecution agreement — the document a federal court later found violated the Crime Victims’ Rights Act. She coached him twice, across two decades, in two separate matters involving sexual misconduct.

That is the concentration this archive has documented, visible in one career. Not a conspiracy — a small field in which the same handful of people accumulate the specific expertise of making allegations about sexual conduct survivable, and are hired repeatedly because they have it.

What distinguishes her from the others is that her working method is preserved. Hiltzik’s invoices show a price. Siegal’s emails show a guest list. Spaeth’s memos show the technique — the words, the deflections, the instruction to change the subject without sounding rehearsed.

And none of it was disclosed, then or since. No register recorded the engagement. Nothing required an interviewer to be told the answers had been prepared, or that a vocabulary had been chosen for the occasion. It surfaced because Bloomberg obtained 18,000 emails from a personal Yahoo account.

Held to the record
Never accused of any offence. Media training and drafting statements are lawful professional work.
She says she ended the engagement because she was uncomfortable — and the apologies she drafted were never used.
The 2015 message is redacted as to sender and recipient; it appears to be from her.
She has said she regretted her Swift Boat involvement.
Coaching Ken Starr twice is not evidence of anything beyond a professional relationship, and is recorded here as pattern rather than allegation.
The documented finding is the word list, the memo, and the contact that continued after she said it stopped.

Section 04

Open Questions

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When did the engagement actually end?
She has said she terminated it out of discomfort. Records show contact in 2011 and an apparent message in 2015, and no date for the termination has been given.
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Which interviews was he prepared for?
A late-February 2008 email indicates a preparation session took place. Which interviews were anticipated, and whether any occurred, is not established.
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Why was the apology never issued?
Three drafts were prepared four months before the guilty plea. No document explains the decision not to use them, or who made it.
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Was she paid?
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Who else received the vocabulary list?
“The Spaeth methodology” is described in her own memo as an established technique. Whether comparable lists were prepared for other clients is unknown.
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Should interview preparation be disclosed?
Nothing requires an interviewer to be told that answers were professionally prepared. No jurisdiction addresses it.

Section 05

Sources

Bloomberg

The Private Support Network

Sept 2025. The original investigation — 18,000 emails, the three apology drafts, and “the Spaeth methodology” memo.

bloomberg.com →
Dallas Morning News

The Word List

Oct 2025. The good and bad phrases, the interview coaching, and her written statement in response.

dallasnews.com →
Dallas Morning News

The Contact That Continued

Feb 2026. The 2011 note through his assistant and the 2015 message, against her account that she had stopped.

dallasnews.com →
The Hollywood Reporter

Inside the Spin Machine

Feb 2026. Spaeth within the wider roster of practitioners who worked for Epstein.

hollywoodreporter.com →
Cross-reference

The Roster

Four practitioners, four functions — and hers is the one whose technique survives.

Read the report →
Cross-reference

The Language

How vocabulary does the work — the same operation across the whole archive.

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Cross-reference

The Frame

The strategy that replaced the apology she drafted.

Read the report →
Cross-reference

The Four Named

The agreement Ken Starr helped negotiate, ten years after she coached him.

Read the report →